How to Heal a Broken Heart?

Guys this ir your chance to share what you think about healing a shattered heart?

Is it supposed to be put back with glue?

Or should you wait for another guy to come around?

Or just give it time to heal?

Shakugan members get mushy and share your thoughts here with any matters cpncerning the human heart. [its a fist sized muscle that pumps blood and oxygen all over our body.] hehehehe

praying to God always works :D

and when i say praying i mean surrender everything before Him
just have a quiet time or devotion time with Him alone

yeah. that will do. Ill pray na sana malinawan na ako. at makilala mo na sarili mo. haay...

>give it time to heal..
>spend more time with friends and family.
>meditate upon your past, you must find what lessons you must
learn from the experience.
>always divert your thoughts on happythings whenever you remember your recent past.
>learn to forgive the person who hurted your feelings
>the hardest thing to do is to let go.

it will take some time...

trust me on this, these are the things i did to overcome your your current situation.

Let it all out. Cry as hard as you want, it's better if you let it out with the people you care the most. There are many other people who loves you more besides that guy. Masmasakit kung tinatago mo yan... and besides... nandito naman kami para sayo. ^^

wow! touched ako. so supportive

wheeew, oo nga....super supportive sya. ahehehe!!

ako maghahanap na lang ako ng iba

hehehe! hi admin. =p

ehehehe... though i don't know what the situation really is, but the feeling of having a woman's heart shattered is very painful.... don't worry, you might be better of without that guy, and you're too beautiful for him( kaya pala naging manhid na ako... hahaha.. joke)...

at least, you didn't go what i've gone through this past sem, being decieved, betrayed and all. (hala, lumalabas na ang sama ng loob koh.. ^^)

michan! wow u've really been through a lot, didnt u?

anyways...hehehe. it hurts lang that he left me hanging. but then again. i think i should follow the saying:

"IF U LOVE A PERSON, LET HIM GO. IF HE COMES BACK, HE IS YOURS"

well yes. its martyrdom but ill give it a shot.

he said he's coming back for me.

I just hope he does.

ah, good for you. i think mine's never coming back. i can't say that i hate him because he's the reason why i'm close to everyone in our block, and we've faced our trials in our course together. maybe i was the one who's stupid to have fallen in love with him. i already knew he was a jerk the first time i noticed him. haaayz... i already got over it a month ago but still i can't heal that deep scar. at the time i got over him, i've met someone who amazingly fits my ideal man, but it's useless now. haaays.. buhay naman talaga...

ahaha. wow thats overwhelming.

love is such a complicated thing.

it sure is... hays... it's good he'e far away from me... now i can drown my misery in studying.. T__T

heheh. boys suck.

ouch =__=

i got hit so badly

=__=

ahahaha!!! boys do suck, ahahaha, just kidding.

well at least there still some guys who are still okay.

don't hate us

hate our attitudes or personality^^,

hehe

woops 5 min na lang time ko

sorry that i have to rant my feelings here... can you really fall for a person you haven't met personally... i just don't know...

there was already someone who likes him before he proposed to me, and now, that girl wants to be with him as much as i do... i don't have the courage to tell him what i really feel...

i told him what he thinks of splitting up, and it's up to me, he'll be the one to pay for it... but i don't want to... i don't want to loose haibara to someone else... i don't wanna loose him so badly...

oh my =_= dat's really complicated
but yes you can really fall in love without meeting personally

i think you should tell him....
and let him be the one to decide (>_>)

i'm not that good at lovetalks but i just want to participate:

falling in love w/ a person whom you did not meet personally.
hmmmm....

kinda dangerous to me.

it might be that you were attracted to his attitude and qualities that he expresses.
but hey, things can suddenly change in an instant.
Everyone of us use "masks", things that we hide so that we can be accepted by others. may it be good or bad.
THIS is where the risk takes place.

in "TRUE LOVE", you accept a person for who he "really" is.(including the qualities you don't like). it's really a heavy sacrifice to do this.

it's really up to YOU alone....on what to do. love him whole, or not.



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here's the best and simplest tip that i can give.

since we, are still students
our attention are divided majorly by studies and family.

it's better to be in a relationship after schoolyears. so that you can focuse on it better.

yes yes very good answer there!!! totally agree!!

that's really nice of you. now were back, and still talk frequently. i guess i just need to get my head back into reality and head on with my studies. i admit i can't prioritize both haibara and my studies can't i? ehehehehe


thanks talaga, group hug!!! ^^

glad to help you guyz....

since my breakup with my 1st and only gf, i tried to help every people with the said topic problem on how to stand up from a fall and be strong not to commit any mistakes again.

coz i know, the feeling really is irritating inside.

so let's just smile and be happy!!!
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oo nga pala.....pmunta ako kaninang 11:00 sa outer haven.
and my, i was really shocked....


ANG DAMING UNITS!!!!!! ehehe!!!
106 units ba un? bka di pa kasali ung pang net-surfing na units dun...

unit #102 gnamit ko. di ko sanay ung keboard...hehe!!!

uu, nandito ako ngayon. ahahaha, pero net lang. hmmm, maglalaro na nga ako eh.


well, napagisip-isip ko kagabi, kung talaga bang mahal ko cya and vice versa. then i realized. baka pinipilit ko lang sarili ko sa kanya... i need to talk to him personaly. I'm going to manila this july 29. ^^